Saturday, June 12, 2010

3 months ago yesterday...

Three months ago today, we were sitting at Parkview hospital in the waiting room of the STICU waiting on Adam to wake up, respond, or breath on his own. Who would have ever thought that 3 months later Adam would be the walking, talking, breathing miracle he is! For those of you that have gotten to see or spend time with Adam since he's been back, you know what I'm talking about. God heard the prayers of many on that Saturday three months ago, and answered them! We would have never thought three months ago that we would see him doing the things he's doing today! And because of that, I will always consider him a walking, talking, breathing miracle that happened right before my eyes!
This week was VERY busy for Adam! He took EVERY stride with a positive, open attitude! He was tired by the end of the week, but kept going! He had PT and ST on Tuesday. They both said that they'd probably work with him for 3-4 weeks anywhere from 2-3 times a week, and then they'd probably be done with him. They said that Shepherds Center did a great job getting him where he's at! Wednesday he met with his Ortho doc regarding his shoulder. Dr. Wright seems to think that he has a torn ligament on the back of his scapula and wants to do some more radiology tests first, but then he's thinking that Adam will need to have a shoulder scope done to see whats going on with his shoulder. The doc said that he could very easily dislocate his shoulder if this ligament was torn...and he said that's pretty painful! Then on Thursday Adam had more PT, OT, and ST. On Friday he met with his eye doctor to make sure his eyes are fine after his accident. They said his eyes looked good, however, he had them dilated, so they will perform a peripheral vision test in a few weeks to make sure that was not affected by the accident.
He spent the majority of the week having Sadie. She was with him everyday but Tuesday this week. We were able to have an early birthday celebration with her and our family and friends this week. She was so stinkin' cute and I know she will be missed by many family and friends while she is away. It's hard on us all, but I know God has bigger plans and He will work it out. It's just too bad that it had to be this way! A few of my best friends were their with their little girls and both of them had been asking for Sadie earlier in the week, those girls had a blast playing in the yard! Friday night we went to Carrie and Brandon Crawford's house for dinner and some fun. We had a great time relaxing and enjoying the evening. Sadie had a wonderful time with their girls, Maddie and Maylee!

And because I'm late on getting this out, on Saturday Adam spent the morning with Sadie and then decided he wanted to relax for the afternoon. We left him to do that and then he spent the evening hanging out with Rodney at his house.

Today Adam got to sleep in and really rest up! He said he slept great! This afternoon he went to Ryan's house and spent some time with him .

Thank you to all our family and friends who made it out to celebrate an early birthday of a very special little girl in our lives. You all have been so wonderful and helpful through this whole process and we appreciate all that you have done for Adam and our family. Another special thank you to Diane, Adam's case manager. She has been absolutely wonderful to work with and fortunately has a great sense of humor! You need that if you are going to work with Adam! He lets everyone know that if he can laugh about this, so can we! Please keep sending those prayers for Adam's continued recovery. Also pray for our Miss Sadie Cakes as she's away from all of her family. We pray that she is safe and continues to know that we love her and miss her. And lastly, please pray for Gemma, she is a fighter and continues to fight for her life at such a young age, but God does work miracles as evidenced in the past 3 months!

Below are some awesome pictures of a wonderful week with Miss Sadie!




Monday, June 7, 2010

Good News Monday!

Adam spent the weekend with Sadie. We played and played and played some more! She has more energy than the energizer bunny! But nonetheless we love her more than words can express! She's a joy to have around and fills our hearts with so much love! Adam had to take a few breaks here and there while having Sadie, but he rested when Sadie rested!

After having Sadie for the weekend, last night we went to Bdubs for our normal sibling outing! How awesome it felt to walk back into Bdubs after so long without Adam! Made me so proud to see him up and walking and being himself! One thing is for sure, he didn't loose his sense of humor through all this! Just another reason I'm so very proud of him!

Today he had his first of MANY appointments this week! Today was his occupational therapy evaluation. He blew them away! They said he looks great and is functioning very well for his injuries. They said that they would probably meet with him twice a week for 2-3 weeks and then he'd be done! Absolutely incredible to know he's this far along after only 11 weeks! God sure did look out for him!

Adam has a lot ahead of him this week! Lots of appointments to get him started in his therapy here in Fort Wayne. He's got appointments every day but Thursday I believe...so busy busy busy he will be!

And lastly, thank you to all of you who continue to follow the blog and keep us in your prayers! Thank you doesn't even begin to describe how grateful we are to you all!

For those of you that have followed the last couple of posts, my cousin Danelle and her husband Jason lost two of their triplets this past week. Elliott and Gabriel went to be with the Lord. Continue to pray for them as they continue to fight for their little girl Gemma's life. So far she is stable and holding her own. Thanks ahead of time for your prayers!

Pictures to follow later this week!

Friday, June 4, 2010

How time flies!

It's absolutely amazing how time flies! It's crazy! Saturday (tomorrow) will be 11 weeks since the accident! WOW! Those of you that know Adam and have seen him since he's been back know how well he looks and acts with it only having been 11 weeks ago! He's an amazing person that's for sure! I can't say that he's ever acted as though it's unachievable to get back to his norm! He's been very determined and continues to be that way! I think this will only benefit him more and more!

Thursday was kind of a lay low day for him, he went to the bank and then picked up Sadie and spent the afternoon with her playing! She was a ham by the time I got off work! She's really growing up!

Today, he met Keith for lunch at Pizza Hut and then him and dad went to Fort Wayne to do a bit of shopping! Then later this evening he went to a Tin Caps game with his friend Ashley. He called earlier about 9:15pm and said that he was getting a little tired. I asked if he wanted us to come get him and he said not yet. Told me he'd call when he was ready! We're awaiting his arrival soon!

Sadie spent the evening with Mamaw and Papaw tonight. She even carried on a pretty good conversation with me on the phone on my way home from work. Adam will have Sadie all weekend until late afternoon on Sunday!

Tonight I say "Thank you" to Adam: thanks for never giving up, for being so determined and positive. You have given your all, plus some and you are truly an amazing person. Some people would have given up, but you've been pushed down and gotten back up and have overcome some not so good odds. Hold your head high as you start therapy on Monday. As always give them h*ll and show them what you are made of! It's truly an honor to call you my brother! Love you!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

One step back

Adam has had a pretty exciting week so far! Sunday after having Sadie, he napped then went to Ryan Conley's house for a cookout! He said he hasn't laughed so hard in a long time. He must have had quite a lot of fun during his "man time."

On Monday he spent the day at Jake's house having a Memorial Day cookout. They also went and put flowers on Grandma and Grandpa Schrader's graves at the cemetery.

On Tuesday he spent the afternoon at his doctors appointment. His appointment was scheduled for 1pm and they finally got in around 2:30-3pm. He said that he got to show Diane his true colors of joking around! I'm sure she got to finally see the "real" Adam! When he finally met with his doctor, he said that his doctor was good. He jokes around and seemed to really connect with Adam. The doctor said that he has many patients with the same injuries as Adam, and none of them are as good as Adam! Absolutely amazing! God is good isn't He?!

Today was a long and disappointing day for Adam. But he's determined to fight to get where he needs to be and I think that will keep him focused on continuing to improve! Keep fighting bro...we'll show them!!! Keep praying for him. Today I believe was a big blow in what has so far been an uphill recovery. But I knew from the beginning, we'd take 2 steps forward and at some point some steps back...today we took a few steps back, but I know that God has plans that none of us know about, and He's in control and knows what He's doing! Thank you to Rhiannon and Dewayne for enduring a long day with us!
Thanks also to Shannon and Joey Herron for the food that they took over to Adam's tonight! It's much appreciated and helps out! We are honored to have such wonderful friends! Thank you again!

Keep praying for Adam and his recovery! Also please say some prayers tonight for Baby A (no name yet), Elliot Lucas, and Gemma Monae Ridge. These are our cousin Danelle and Jason Ridge's triplets that were born today in their 23rd week of gestation. They are fighting for their lives, but are at this time doing ok. Please pray also for Danelle, Jason and their son Marcus as they begin a long journey to get these babies healthy! Pray also for Carla and the rest of the family and friends that will be making journey's to South Bend.

Below is the picture I promised you earlier this week! It's of Adam and Sadie after church on Sunday!


Sunday, May 30, 2010

Today has already been a busy day for Adam! We've been up and went to church with Sadie and Papaw! It was absolutely wonderful to see the faces of those who have kept Adam in their prayers this whole time. Thank you Pastor Steve for your encouragement and words this morning. God really did perform a miracle through all this!

Adam has been pretty busy since he's been home. He had Sadie Wednesday night for a while. Thursday he had meetings and spent most of the day in Fort Wayne with Mom and Dad. On Friday he was able to go over to Depuy and spent about 4 hours with his boss and co-workers. When he returned back to CC he wanted to stop by the jail. So that he did. I finally returned home about 8:30 Friday night and got to see him! He looks great! I think you can hardly see his scar from the surgery unless you are looking for it!

Yesterday was the 10 week mark! I can't hardly believe it! I was able to spend the day with Adam and Sadie. Last night Abbie and Joe Bailey welcomed us over (along with Dad) for a cookout. We had a good time visiting with friends! Thank you Abbie and Joe for mowing his yard while he was away, for bringing him food, for your prayers and for your friendship! You both are a true blessing! Sadie had a great time running around with the other kids last night! I don't think she was ready for bed when we laid her down! She spent the night and didn't make a peep until 6:30 this morning, then she was ready to go, yelling "Daddy where are you!"

Rodney and his wife also came by last night with their little girl! I think Adam enjoyed the extra company! I'm sure he's sick of all of us already!! Ha!

This afternoon Ryan is picking Adam up and he'll go over to their house for a cookout. Again...new faces!

He really is doing wonderful considering where he was 10 weeks ago. He does get tired pretty easy, but knows when to say enough is enough. When Sadie lays down, so does he!

Thank you all AGAIN for your constant prayers, he still has a road ahead of him, but has/is making such great strides! This week will be filled with appointments with the doctors that will follow him now that he's back! And maybe we'll have to make a sibling outing to Bdubs!!! Have a great Sunday all! Pictures to follow after bit!

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Home at last!

I want apoligize for not having posted any news since Adam's arrival home. It's been a crazy few days as we all adjust to having him home. I just simply haven't had the moment to reflect on his blog. We are all taking turns staying with Adam until he is able to stay alone.

I did get a few shots of him arriving off the plane in FW. Adam, his Dad and Diane from Workman's Comp arrived almost before we did. Jake and I made a mad dash to meet the party as they hit gound.

Russ, Tony, and another wonderful fellow (who's name I didn't know) met the group as they landed with a banner "Welcome home Adam". All of us were reduced to tears!

Since their landing, we've all been busy. Shepherd's asked that we keep 24/7 on Adam a few days until he is settled at home. We are to gradually allow him time alone, which I'm sure he is ready for as we wish him also to be. He's been followed by someone 24/7 for so long, I'm sure it is frustrating for him.

We are all taking turns staying at Adam's house, he's had visits with Sadie, Grandpa Lemmon, and Rodney and his family. Jody Morrissey and Jana Reeg stopped Friday night to say Hi and welcome him home, all much enjoyed and appreciated.

Adam continue's to improve, but tires easily. Nap times are usually in the afternoon. I'm sure he'd welcome the familiar faces of all of his friends and fellow co-workers, drop by and see him...

I'll attempt to get to get the pictures of his landing posted soon when I catch my breath... I about died today mowing his yard by push mower! I'm used to riders, so this was a new experience, but it's done and I have to say it didn't look to bad!

Lots of hugs and well wishes to all of you, have a good weekend!
Mom

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Almost time!

In a little over 3 hours, the men will be home! Jake and I are busy moving his clean laundry, dog (we simply can't forget the dog!), and truck over to his house. We will then head over to FW to grab a sandwich and then head to the airport to wait!

Mike called about 3:30pm and they were at the airport waiting. He said Adam was tired, but trying to take a catnap while waiting. Their flight takes off at 7:30pm so they had a long wait ahead.

I think today was one of the longer days I have had. I'm sure Adam has had more than I have, but it will sure be nice to have everyone home. Thanks to everyone who kept me busy today and making the day seem shorter. :)

I'm taking the camera along to get shots of their arrival and will post them tomorrow.